Do you know why playing games with our kids is so important?
I am sure some of you will say, "Because they are fun and can be educational." You would be right. However, I want to share with you more details:
Games are fun and therefore motivating. Children often they forget they are learning and practicing things like math, reading, and science.
Games show how we use math is real life. Solving mathmatics problems and solutions are needed to play the games and parallels real life situations.
Games can enhance the understanding of mathmatic relationships. Often several skills are combined in games.
Some games inspire children to create their own games or variations fostering advanced logical reasoning.
Children love to play games, therefore they are more likely to take risks to practice, succeed, and learn from "mistakes made".
Games help children to accept that there are more than one answer and more than one method to solve problems.
Games help children to communicate mathmatically, in logical sequencing. Games require students to justify their thinking and rationalize their decisions.
Games help children learn sequential skills, by going around a board, moving back and forth, taking turns or even more advanced strategic planning.
Games help children to learn social - survival skills. Participants must play by the rules, learn to be a good winner and loser, take chances, make decisions, and cooperate with others.
Some games help children learn and understand Maslow's hierarchy of needs. What is needed before being able to move to the next point.
Playing games with adults is importantbecause it helps a child understand humanity and what really make an individual special. A child realizes adults are not perfect and have to work by using a persons strengths and being willing to identify and use their weaknesses as well.
Playing games is like a micro - representation of living life. Observing and playing games that encourage making mistakes, causing errors, and having doubt are really very good things!
Thomas Edison said he learn 1000 ways not to make a light bulb before he got it right. I am sure glad he kept going after 100th time!!
** Thank you Robin Follmer for your help with this blog!
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Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
"Parenting LEVERAGE" is Kids' Keys To Success
Exciting News!!!Kids' Keys To Success has just released their latest program "Parenting LEVERAGE"!
Parenting LEVERAGE is a super affordable monthly membership to change the way mom and dad view parenting and make parenting fun and easy.
I know every parent wants to be the best parent they can be.
I know this goal often gets lost in the chaos of work, schedules, school, errands, chores, etc.; all the demands that tug and pull you away from being able to focus on your ultimate goal: raising your child to be well-rounded, have an rock-solid confidence, adaptable personality, and an empathetic soul.
As a result of constant demands away from our parenting goal we experience awful consequences: inappropriate attention getting behaviors like temper tantrums, hitting, bullying, withdrawing, over active interest in sexual activities, use of drugs, alcohol, gaming, poor personal choices and wrong judgement calls, to name a few.
Parenting LEVERAGE changes all of this with audio lessons and recommended activities for your family (included activities for each age level of your child and activity to do as a family)
and coaching offered by a clinical therapist.
To find out more read our Press Release and sample a free 7 Day News series by signing in here ($150 value).
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Immunizations: A Key to Kids's Success
Below is information provided by Dr. Cynthia Devore.
This article was provided by our local PTSA
Why Do We Need To Immunize Our Families And Ourselves?
Immunization Protects You, Your Family, and Your Community.
Today, most of us have never seen firsthand the discomfort, disability and even death that vaccine preventable diseases can cause. The success of widespread immunization means that we are more likely to witness a rare reaction to a vaccine than a case of the disease that the vaccine prevents.
Vaccines are simple. One to five doses of a vaccine can provide long-term to life-long protection from some serious diseases. Vaccines act naturally to stimulate the body’s own immune system.
The body’s response to vaccines builds a defense against future exposure to diseases.
We need to immunize because vaccines prevent 12 potentially deadly diseases. In the days before immunization, millions of people died from diseases like diphtheria, polio, measles and whooping cough. Re-emergence of these diseases occurs when there are decreases in vaccine use.
Vaccine Safety: there has been a long and thorough process in place to ensure the safety of vaccines. Licensing of a vaccine can take up to 10 years. Once a vaccine is in use by the general public, its safety is continually monitored. Vaccines, like any medication, can cause side effects.
However, a decision not to immunize a child also involves risk. Consider measles. One out of 30 children with measles getspneumonia. For every 1,000 children who get the disease, one or two will die from it. Thanks to vaccines, we have few cases of measles in the U.S. today. However, the disease is extremelycontagious and each year dozens of cases are imported from abroad into the U.S., threateningthe health of people who have NOT been vaccinated.
Vaccines effectively and affordably prevent diseases like measles that used to disable or even kill many children each year.
Answers to Common Questions about Vaccine Safety....You may have questions about stories you have heard in the news or read on the Internet about the safety of vaccines, such as:
Are vaccines safe?
YES, Vaccines are safe, but like any medicine, they can occasionally cause reactions. These are usually mild, like a sore arm, redness at the site, or a slight fever. Serious reactions are rare.
Talk to your doctor or nurse about potential risks before receiving a shot.
Is it safe to give a child many shots at once, or does this overload the immune system?
YES, it is safe. Studies show that today’s children are actually exposed to fewer antigens (substances that produce an immune response) in vaccines than ever before. Based on the immune system’s capacity to respond, scientists estimate that a child could receive 10,000 vaccine antigens in one day and still not “use up” their immune response. The 11 recommended childhood vaccines contain less than 130 vaccine antigens.
Are preservatives found in vaccines safe?
YES. Today, all of the currently recommended vaccines for children ages six or younger are now available thimerosal-free. Thimerosal is a mercury-containing preservative that has been used in some vaccines since the 1930s as a safeguard against contamination. A review by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) found no evidence of harm caused by the small amounts of thimerosal in vaccines. Nevertheless, in July 1999 the Public Health Service (PHS) agencies, the AmericanAcademy of Pediatrics (AAP) and vaccine manufacturers agreed that thimerosal levels in vaccines should be reduced or eliminated to reassure the public that vaccines are safe.
Can I get a disease from a vaccine?
NO. This is a myth that comes from speculation that because a disease-causing germ is sometimes used in the creation of a vaccine, it is possible for the vaccine to cause the disease. Vaccines, however, are made from killed or weakened bacteria or viruses, non-harmful products of these germs or parts of these germs. In rare cases, some vaccines may cause mild, short-term, disease-like symptoms.
Isn’t chickenpox simply a harmless childhood rite of passage?
I got chicken pox when I was a child and I turned out just fine. Why do I need to vaccinate my child with the chickenpox (Varicella) vaccine now?
NO, chickenpox is not harmless. Chickenpox (also known as Varicella) causes 12,000 hospitalizations and 100 deaths each year in the U.S. While chickenpox is usually mild, it can be serious in some infants, children, adolescents and adults. Some people who get chickenpox also suffer from complications such as encephalitis (brain infection), secondary bacterial infections like “flesh-eating” strep or MRSA, loss of fluids (dehydration), pneumonia, and even death. If an immunized person gets chickenpox, the illness will be much milder than in a non-immunized person. Varicella vaccine protects children now and as adults when they are more likely to die from chickenpox and its complications.
What are the benefits and risks of immunization?
Benefits: There are many benefits to immunizing children.
Immunization:
• Protects them from dangerous and deadly diseases
• Protects others, who cannot be vaccinated for medical reasons.
• Decreases the severity of a case if the vaccinated child does get the disease.
• Decreases the spread of contagious diseases through “herd immunity.”
Risks: Some children may experience a mild fever, irritability, pain, swelling and redness at the injection site. Very rarely a child may experience allergic reactions if they are allergic to a component of the vaccine, seizures, non-responsiveness, or crying that lasts more than 3 hours.
These risks need to be compared to the very real risks of not immunizing our children: prolonged illnesses that can produce severe disability and even death.
Where can I find a list of ingredients found in vaccines?It is always important to use caution in using the internet for credible resources. You can find a list of ingredients on the Centers for Disease Control website at:http://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/pubs/pinkbook/downloads/appendices/B/excipient-table-2.pdf
What are other good resources that will help me understand vaccines better?
There are many excellent resources and many questionable resources.
The information in this article is from reputable resources:
• American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) Red Book, 2006.
• Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, http://www.cdc.gov/
• National Immunization Program Web site, www.cdc.gov/nip
• Immunization Action Coalition Web site, http://www.immunize.org/
• Vaccine Education Center at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia Web site www.vaccine.chop.edu/
• National Network for Immunization Information Web site, http://www.immunizationinfo.org/
• NPI Reference Guide on Vaccines and Vaccine Safety, 2nd edition, 2002.
• Vaccinating Your Child: Questions and Answers for the Concerned Parent, Sharon Humiston, MD, MPH and Cynthia Good, 2000.npi@hmhb.org
• Got a question about immunizations? Email the Child Immunization Support Program of the American Academy of Pediatrics at cispimmunize@aap.org
This article was provided by our local PTSA
Why Do We Need To Immunize Our Families And Ourselves?
Immunization Protects You, Your Family, and Your Community.
Today, most of us have never seen firsthand the discomfort, disability and even death that vaccine preventable diseases can cause. The success of widespread immunization means that we are more likely to witness a rare reaction to a vaccine than a case of the disease that the vaccine prevents.
Vaccines are simple. One to five doses of a vaccine can provide long-term to life-long protection from some serious diseases. Vaccines act naturally to stimulate the body’s own immune system.
The body’s response to vaccines builds a defense against future exposure to diseases.
We need to immunize because vaccines prevent 12 potentially deadly diseases. In the days before immunization, millions of people died from diseases like diphtheria, polio, measles and whooping cough. Re-emergence of these diseases occurs when there are decreases in vaccine use.
Vaccine Safety: there has been a long and thorough process in place to ensure the safety of vaccines. Licensing of a vaccine can take up to 10 years. Once a vaccine is in use by the general public, its safety is continually monitored. Vaccines, like any medication, can cause side effects.
However, a decision not to immunize a child also involves risk. Consider measles. One out of 30 children with measles getspneumonia. For every 1,000 children who get the disease, one or two will die from it. Thanks to vaccines, we have few cases of measles in the U.S. today. However, the disease is extremelycontagious and each year dozens of cases are imported from abroad into the U.S., threateningthe health of people who have NOT been vaccinated.
Vaccines effectively and affordably prevent diseases like measles that used to disable or even kill many children each year.
Answers to Common Questions about Vaccine Safety....You may have questions about stories you have heard in the news or read on the Internet about the safety of vaccines, such as:
Are vaccines safe?
YES, Vaccines are safe, but like any medicine, they can occasionally cause reactions. These are usually mild, like a sore arm, redness at the site, or a slight fever. Serious reactions are rare.
Talk to your doctor or nurse about potential risks before receiving a shot.
Is it safe to give a child many shots at once, or does this overload the immune system?
YES, it is safe. Studies show that today’s children are actually exposed to fewer antigens (substances that produce an immune response) in vaccines than ever before. Based on the immune system’s capacity to respond, scientists estimate that a child could receive 10,000 vaccine antigens in one day and still not “use up” their immune response. The 11 recommended childhood vaccines contain less than 130 vaccine antigens.
Are preservatives found in vaccines safe?
YES. Today, all of the currently recommended vaccines for children ages six or younger are now available thimerosal-free. Thimerosal is a mercury-containing preservative that has been used in some vaccines since the 1930s as a safeguard against contamination. A review by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) found no evidence of harm caused by the small amounts of thimerosal in vaccines. Nevertheless, in July 1999 the Public Health Service (PHS) agencies, the AmericanAcademy of Pediatrics (AAP) and vaccine manufacturers agreed that thimerosal levels in vaccines should be reduced or eliminated to reassure the public that vaccines are safe.
Can I get a disease from a vaccine?
NO. This is a myth that comes from speculation that because a disease-causing germ is sometimes used in the creation of a vaccine, it is possible for the vaccine to cause the disease. Vaccines, however, are made from killed or weakened bacteria or viruses, non-harmful products of these germs or parts of these germs. In rare cases, some vaccines may cause mild, short-term, disease-like symptoms.
Isn’t chickenpox simply a harmless childhood rite of passage?
I got chicken pox when I was a child and I turned out just fine. Why do I need to vaccinate my child with the chickenpox (Varicella) vaccine now?
NO, chickenpox is not harmless. Chickenpox (also known as Varicella) causes 12,000 hospitalizations and 100 deaths each year in the U.S. While chickenpox is usually mild, it can be serious in some infants, children, adolescents and adults. Some people who get chickenpox also suffer from complications such as encephalitis (brain infection), secondary bacterial infections like “flesh-eating” strep or MRSA, loss of fluids (dehydration), pneumonia, and even death. If an immunized person gets chickenpox, the illness will be much milder than in a non-immunized person. Varicella vaccine protects children now and as adults when they are more likely to die from chickenpox and its complications.
What are the benefits and risks of immunization?
Benefits: There are many benefits to immunizing children.
Immunization:
• Protects them from dangerous and deadly diseases
• Protects others, who cannot be vaccinated for medical reasons.
• Decreases the severity of a case if the vaccinated child does get the disease.
• Decreases the spread of contagious diseases through “herd immunity.”
Risks: Some children may experience a mild fever, irritability, pain, swelling and redness at the injection site. Very rarely a child may experience allergic reactions if they are allergic to a component of the vaccine, seizures, non-responsiveness, or crying that lasts more than 3 hours.
These risks need to be compared to the very real risks of not immunizing our children: prolonged illnesses that can produce severe disability and even death.
Where can I find a list of ingredients found in vaccines?It is always important to use caution in using the internet for credible resources. You can find a list of ingredients on the Centers for Disease Control website at:http://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/pubs/pinkbook/downloads/appendices/B/excipient-table-2.pdf
What are other good resources that will help me understand vaccines better?
There are many excellent resources and many questionable resources.
The information in this article is from reputable resources:
• American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) Red Book, 2006.
• Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, http://www.cdc.gov/
• National Immunization Program Web site, www.cdc.gov/nip
• Immunization Action Coalition Web site, http://www.immunize.org/
• Vaccine Education Center at the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia Web site www.vaccine.chop.edu/
• National Network for Immunization Information Web site, http://www.immunizationinfo.org/
• NPI Reference Guide on Vaccines and Vaccine Safety, 2nd edition, 2002.
• Vaccinating Your Child: Questions and Answers for the Concerned Parent, Sharon Humiston, MD, MPH and Cynthia Good, 2000.npi@hmhb.org
• Got a question about immunizations? Email the Child Immunization Support Program of the American Academy of Pediatrics at cispimmunize@aap.org
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Nutrition is a Kids' Key to Success
Do you know the true key to healthy nutritional for your kids? Dinner time!
You are the supply line and the best source and example for healthy eating.
If you want to learn more about how you can improve your kids' eating habits click on
"Parenting Leverage" (to the left in the navigation bar). I have just completed a full session of nutritional keys to help improve your child's eating habits.
It is fun and easy! You won't believe the simple stuff you have been over looking and will make your life so much easier.
Think... no more power struggles at the dinner table!
You are the supply line and the best source and example for healthy eating.
If you want to learn more about how you can improve your kids' eating habits click on
"Parenting Leverage" (to the left in the navigation bar). I have just completed a full session of nutritional keys to help improve your child's eating habits.
It is fun and easy! You won't believe the simple stuff you have been over looking and will make your life so much easier.
Think... no more power struggles at the dinner table!
Thursday, September 25, 2008
No "Downing" This Down's Dad!
Kids' Keys Recently had an awesome opportunity to interview Martin Ramirez, not once but twice!! (we had a technical problem the first time which offered greater insight to us!)
I have learned so much from these interviews. Martin Ramirez is a humble, compassionate, and inspiring father. He shared how his son, Mario, born with Down Syndrome, became his mentor. Mario transformed his father’s life and will now change ours!
We know the statistics… *approximately 1 out of a 1000 children born will be diagnosed with Down’s Syndrome. Often when a parent is told his child is born with a chromosomal abnormality the picture of the family a parent once had is forever changed and is often viewed as challenging, mostly with struggles.
I have learned so much from these interviews. Martin Ramirez is a humble, compassionate, and inspiring father. He shared how his son, Mario, born with Down Syndrome, became his mentor. Mario transformed his father’s life and will now change ours!
We know the statistics… *approximately 1 out of a 1000 children born will be diagnosed with Down’s Syndrome. Often when a parent is told his child is born with a chromosomal abnormality the picture of the family a parent once had is forever changed and is often viewed as challenging, mostly with struggles.
Martin, however, turns that assumption on it's head.“Mario’s world is ‘judge free’, stated Martin Ramirez, “He’s neutral, neither positive nor negative and has taught me the secrets to lead with your heart and not your head,” and now, Martin is teaching us through Mario’s voice.
Martin Ramirez, recently wrote Living It Up With Downs, How My Son Became My Mentor and is now offering motivational and personal coaching presentations.
Through his book, speaking engagements, and his every day practice Martin shares how Mario helps him (in turn helps us) to find purpose and the tools to living a fuller life.
With so many people talking about the trials and everyday struggles families face with Down Syndrome, Martin Ramirez redirects the focus from, “It’s not what you get,” to “It’s what you become” because every family has their own struggles and own "handicaps", so to speak.
Martin has taken his role as father to three boys with serious optimism. How many parents can say they live by example they teach?
Martin lives the way he wants his sons to live and often uses little gems like, “Make what ever you do - the product of your own conclusion," to remind his sons to build confidence and self-purpose.
Martin challenges everyone to face any challenge with enthusiasm and curiosity. He gives simple tips, learned from Mario, on how to get here, such as negotiating without a power struggle. To hear more about what this amazing father has to say, visit Kids’ Keys To Success.
Listen to the “Down’s Dad” training for free at http://www.kidskeystosuccess.com/interviews/index.html
* Stats taken from http://www.telebyte.com/upside/up-rambl.html September 12, 2008
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Building Independence Is A Kids' Key To Success
What is better than hearing, excitedly, about the first day of your child's independence and a new chapter in her life?
I feel so blessed to have this on video and the ability to share it with others!
I feel so blessed to have this on video and the ability to share it with others!
Friday, September 5, 2008
Parents' Dreams For Their Kids is A Key
I want to challenge myself and hopefully, you with your help.
I get so caught up trying to do things: raise kids, care for a household, checking stuff off, my ever so long, to-do lists. I don't slow down to ask myself some important questions to make sure I am on track, have you?
What do you think is the most important factor to help create your kids's ideal life? Is it education? Is it the tools and skills he/she will acquire? Is it the values you are trying to instill? Is it the way you are helping your child to perceive and look at life?
What are your expectations for your child? What have you been putting off to do with your child? Have you ever wondered what would happen if you made decisions about your child's life without fear?
These are really important questions? Would you agree? The last question (...without fear...) can that really happen when you are a parent?
I spent too much of life in limbo, waiting for the right things to happen to in order for me to then do the things I want to do. I realize that this has been my excuse, my reason for not "going for it". I don't want to jump into something spontaneously without clear thinking and thoroughness, but have you put off what you think will really make a difference with your child, something that you think will fill an empty spot in his/her soul? I have.
Will join me to take on a challenge? I want to start doing this for my kids, but I need your help...
Can you write down 3 goals and share them with me?
My top three are (they aren't super crazy, nor exciting) except to me:
1) No longer offer material rewards for making the right decision;
2) Keep my cool and patience at the end of the day when they are tired and are bickering or whining; and
3) Help them to learn Chinese;
It is a good place to start, isn't it? Tell me where you are so I can learn from you too!
I get so caught up trying to do things: raise kids, care for a household, checking stuff off, my ever so long, to-do lists. I don't slow down to ask myself some important questions to make sure I am on track, have you?
What do you think is the most important factor to help create your kids's ideal life? Is it education? Is it the tools and skills he/she will acquire? Is it the values you are trying to instill? Is it the way you are helping your child to perceive and look at life?
What are your expectations for your child? What have you been putting off to do with your child? Have you ever wondered what would happen if you made decisions about your child's life without fear?These are really important questions? Would you agree? The last question (...without fear...) can that really happen when you are a parent?
I spent too much of life in limbo, waiting for the right things to happen to in order for me to then do the things I want to do. I realize that this has been my excuse, my reason for not "going for it". I don't want to jump into something spontaneously without clear thinking and thoroughness, but have you put off what you think will really make a difference with your child, something that you think will fill an empty spot in his/her soul? I have.
Will join me to take on a challenge? I want to start doing this for my kids, but I need your help...
Can you write down 3 goals and share them with me?
My top three are (they aren't super crazy, nor exciting) except to me:
1) No longer offer material rewards for making the right decision;
2) Keep my cool and patience at the end of the day when they are tired and are bickering or whining; and
3) Help them to learn Chinese;
It is a good place to start, isn't it? Tell me where you are so I can learn from you too!
Mom Having Fun Is A Kids' Key
What mom doesn’t want to have fun? I know when I became a mom it was the most momentous, joyous time in my life and then came the endless nights of crying, nursing, rocking, crying, walking, bouncing, slowly and gently placing baby in crib, crying (rinse, repeat, with mom crying too!)
It’s rough right… All of a sudden I was thrown from being independent; working out side the home and all I really had to worry about was me. I was able to use the bathroom, eat, and well just do what ever I wanted when I wanted. And for better and for worse that was just the beginning. My sister told me the first few years are the easiest, and then it really gets tough. From talking with friends the “fun” really begins as our beautiful babes enter their adolescence and teen years. So much to look forward to, right!
When discussing with my husband whether we wanted to start a family I told him I wasn’t sure if I wanted to deal with teenagers… His response, “If people made the decision to have children based on their life while the children are teens, no one would have kids”. That’s probably a pretty accurate response, right?
Well, not exactly. I didn’t want to feel frustrated, confused, and not knowing what to do. So I started looking for answers and I found and amazing source and wealth of information. The resource I am speaking of is Nicole MacKenzie. She created a home parenting course called: Parenting Rule #1: Mom Has Fun and I was able to interview her. Nicole also offers for moms like me where “too much information” still isn’t enough, a newsletter. She first tells mom’s “not to be perfect and to have fun”. What is not to like?
Mom and dad “having fun” will encourage your kids to make better choices, listen and be more respectful. Strange isn’t it! It is such a parenting paradigm switch. That is why it is so intriguing to me. So I decided to give it a try! I placed the emphasis of parenting on me. If things seemed to be going down hill and unwanted behavior started to flair, I quickly stepped aside and said to myself “Am I having fun?” The answer was always, “no”. I realized that if I wasn’t having fun, neither were my kids.
When I sat down and really thought about the things I want to give my children and the most important quality is to appreciate and enjoy life. How am I going to do that if I am frowning, agitated, and becoming spooled up because my kids are “not listening”, tormenting each other, and acting like monkeys. If kids learn (if anyone learns, really) more from seeing and doing (not from what I say) then how would I really be teaching this? So my mission was to practice having fun myself. What an incredible gift!
When I sat back and my primary focus for the day was to enjoy it. Not changing the bed clothes, not to clean the house with resentment because I knew the house would be a mess again in less than 1 hr, not wondering if I am giving my kids enough “quality time”, etc., etc. My goal is to teach my kids to be well-adjusted, kind, conscientious and responsible adults who are in love with life. A tall order right! But here is the thing. It was like a light bulb glaring at me in the face: They are not going to learn this from watching the “old” me. I had to live it.
So what only seems like a simple solution really is simple if I put the focus on me and not on the kids. Does that seem original? It isn’t, really. If I think back to when my parents were growing up they didn’t have all the material stuff or luxuries so there was less time to spend with us kids. Kids had so many more responsibilities.
We hear so often: “kids need to be kids”; “kids don’t play anymore”; and “they are forced to grow up too fast”. Don’t get me wrong, I think our kids are exposed to violence, sexual mature situations, and adult responsibilities all too often in our culture. But I also believe our kids are not held accountable and given reasonable tasks they stick to, and know how their behavior affects others.
I don’t mean the consequences for toddler hitting, or that two year old slapping that necessitates a time out and saying “sorry” with a hug to the injured, but the kind of empathy learned when emphasis is placed on giving to others; the happiness, joy, and contentment that truly lie when giving to others.
I have heard statements like this before but for some reason this was different. There is meaning in a new way (finally, after 34 years of life). Although, children learn to receive love and affection by watching their number one teachers (mom and dad), but what if that is all they learn? What if they aren’t given the responsibility of giving love and feeling the love, joy, and satisfaction of truly giving of him/her self?
Would I be giving my children the “education” and lessons they truly need to live the life I want for them, if I don’t create situations where they have to give in order to know joy, happiness, and satisfaction? I once thought that happiness didn’t really exist in life. I thought, “Yes, we do experience happy moments but life is filled more with boredom, problems, want, need, rejection, fear, and loneliness.” I have learned recently that there is so much more and happiness, joy and contentment can be the mainstay with bits of sadness, loneliness, and fear thrown in so we know we are alive.
Yes, there are quiet moments and times when I even crave to be by myself because now I know happiness and fullness. I feel love and I am surrounded by it. It has taken me way too long to find this and what I really want is for my kids to grow up with these feelings and have them all there life. I know I can’t guarantee that they will always have and experience those feelings but I can set up the lifestyle that supports it.
My faith in this is compounded by the people I see and the stories I hear in other countries where there isn’t the intense media and focus on material things. Places where there is true need, despair, and want, but often there isn’t loneliness and rejection when there is a family unit. A family that depends on one another with children held to standard of their parents with giving and caring for one another.
Some may question…what about role reversal, what about inappropriate responsibilities for a child. But that isn’t what I am discussing. I mean creating situations where the child realizes and practices the power of their life and love by giving it to another, unconditionally. Unfortunately, our culture doesn’t necessarily support this and I truly do not want to offend. But if you ever experience feelings of being overwhelmed, frustrated, or counting the minutes until bedtime so you can have a break, then I think you need to have fun!
Just the other day, I took Nicole Mackenzie’s advice, and acted instead of reacted to my kids bickering and said… “Hey guys, mom isn’t having fun right now, are you?” They both looked at me and said a resounding “no!” Well, what do you think we need to do then?” I asked.
At that instant the fight was over and we were off doing something else! Thank You Nicole Mackenzie for making our lives so much better!!
Silliness Is A Kids' Key To Success
And I wonder why I have a tough time focusing....
Not only do I have a digit digging, "catch a big one" trophy winner....
Yes, she painted her entire body green!
AND then did a little dance to celebrate!
Not only do I have a digit digging, "catch a big one" trophy winner....
Yes, she painted her entire body green!AND then did a little dance to celebrate!
Respect and Sustainable Living Is A Kids' Key
Just wanted to let you know the interview with Meglena Antonova was Super Great! I had so much fun and I felt like I was talking with an old friend!
How often does that happen? You meet someone and you make that instant connection. I know it doesn't happen all too often for me but when it does it is such a high.
If you weren't able to make the live version last night... here is the recorded version!
Go check it out.. www.kidskeystosuccess.com/Meglena/index.html
Please give me your feedback!
Meglena asked all of us to check out these sites after listening to our call...
www.recyclenow.com
www.ecofriendlykid.co.uk
www.climatecrisis.net (calculate your cabon footprint!)
Jen
How often does that happen? You meet someone and you make that instant connection. I know it doesn't happen all too often for me but when it does it is such a high.
If you weren't able to make the live version last night... here is the recorded version!
Go check it out.. www.kidskeystosuccess.com/Meglena/index.html
Please give me your feedback!
Meglena asked all of us to check out these sites after listening to our call...
www.recyclenow.com
www.ecofriendlykid.co.uk
www.climatecrisis.net (calculate your cabon footprint!)
Jen
Blog Train Is a Key For Mom Bloggers
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Sustainable Living is a Key for Kids
What do you need to do right, but most people do wrong? Find out tonight! Meglena will shed the light on how to increase our children's respect.
Anyone can listen for FREE for our OPERATION SUSTAINABLE LIVING call
with author and teacher Meglena Antonova live on , June 3rd at 9pm EST.
Meglena Antonova is a highly acclaimed international author who has written a children's book "The Golden Fish". You can read more about it below on a previous post.
Find out more about her and her important message about how you and your family can live a more sustainable life! What is really cool is her method increases the respect your child has for you and for our environment!
Dish me up a little of that please!
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Find Out Tonight
at 9 pm EST.
the bridge number is 1 (218)936 - 7999
access code 458138
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If you want to "Live" a more fun, satisfying, and sustainable life, plus get the respect you deserve
from your children.... Learn from, be inspired by --- and make the best use of this call.
Meglena will tackle two challenges in a light, upbeat and positive way.
1. She gets parents excited and proactive (because kids follow when their parents lead the way).
Anyone can listen for FREE for our OPERATION SUSTAINABLE LIVING call
with author and teacher Meglena Antonova live on , June 3rd at 9pm EST.
Meglena Antonova is a highly acclaimed international author who has written a children's book "The Golden Fish". You can read more about it below on a previous post.
Find out more about her and her important message about how you and your family can live a more sustainable life! What is really cool is her method increases the respect your child has for you and for our environment!
Dish me up a little of that please!
___________________________________
Find Out Tonight
at 9 pm EST.
the bridge number is 1 (218)936 - 7999
access code 458138
___________________________________
If you want to "Live" a more fun, satisfying, and sustainable life, plus get the respect you deserve
from your children.... Learn from, be inspired by --- and make the best use of this call.
Meglena will tackle two challenges in a light, upbeat and positive way.
1. She gets parents excited and proactive (because kids follow when their parents lead the way).
2. She explains, in a simple way, what the next step to Eco friendly living. (Most people have started the basics...recycling, florescent lights, low flow plumbing, etc. But what is the next step?) And She Covers So Much More!
Parents Do Make The Difference.
Is it too much to ask? Probably, but Meglena starts her lessons here. Who wants to listen to someone who lowers the bar of conscientiousness, makes you feel condemned, irresponsible, and plagued with fear? Not Me!
Peak Performance Is A Key To Kids' Success
I am so tired, I am praying this email makes sense. I have so much to share with you but I am going to put in bullets so I can mimize the risk of totally confusing you!
Why am I so tired??? - Well, first my youngest child has been going through testing to figure out why he is limping and in pain. To say the least my life has turned upside down; my diet consists of high fat, sugar laden food "to make it through the day" since it all started April 29.
- He has had umpteen x-rays, blood tests and seen so many people, my head spins trying to make sense of it. Yesterday we went to the hospital for more tests and after hours of more waiting and discomfort, crying baby, etc. The doctor called and left a message saying my son does have a stress fracture just not in the location we thought.
- After Thanking God and holding back tears once more, because it wasn't a more serious situation. My mind whirled over how my active boy is going to make it through another round in a cast. (The last time he was in the cast, I felt like I was restraining a baby bear from his mother).
- So, life moves on and we are into day one of the new cast. Sam (my son) has already tried to pry the cast off with his play saw, hammer, and pure, super-human toddler strength. Who knew a two year old could be so strong? I am just wondering if the cast or Sam will win.
- To say the least, my sleep has been mimial because of concern and pure emotional exhaustion. I am sooo grateful I now know what the "limp" is. I feel as though I should be feeling renewed, but it seems like the emotional toll is slamming down on me. I am ready to burst into tears and when I go to blink, one of my eyes keeps sticking together. Weird I know! Explain that one!
Any who - why am I sitting here typing when I should be in bed at quarter to one in the morning? Well, it was the season finally of LOST! Who can resist the urge to watch when I am in dire need to leave my reality if only for two hours!
_ So what did you think!!!??? I know, it always takes me a day to digest all the info! Although the last episode answered many of this season's questions, boy it threw out some doozies, didn't it?! I want to know the writers and learn from them how they come up with such fantastic "copy". If LOST was a product to be bought I would be hooked to buy all the time!!
-Talking about marketing...What do you think about my new site Mom Marketeers? Is it easy to understand/follow? Do you have any questions? Any feed back would be fantastic and super appreciated!
-NEW INFO...(with more to be written soon...) My interview with Nicole MacKenzie is up!! Go listen to the recording! Nicole MacKenzie .
- I think Nicole is the bomb! Her info. is soo great; she is so genuine and is full of great suggestions, insight. Nicole follows a refresing life philosophy. She make her theories so easy to understand and I am so excited to start implementing them. Actually right after the call with her I started with the little we discussed and I must admit... My kids and I have been so much happier (meaning content) and we have found greater peace in our home. Especially right now, that is a huge feat!
- Go right now to my Mom Has Fun site to find out for yourself! I'd love to hear what you think and get feedback on questions you have and how Kids' Keys To Success can improve our interviews!
-Check out Nicole's course yourself! Hear testimonials and learn more info. on her site. You will be so excited to learn more because how simple she makes it! I know you will love it!
More to come.... take care and to all those moms out there...get some sleep! ;-)
Why am I so tired??? - Well, first my youngest child has been going through testing to figure out why he is limping and in pain. To say the least my life has turned upside down; my diet consists of high fat, sugar laden food "to make it through the day" since it all started April 29.
- He has had umpteen x-rays, blood tests and seen so many people, my head spins trying to make sense of it. Yesterday we went to the hospital for more tests and after hours of more waiting and discomfort, crying baby, etc. The doctor called and left a message saying my son does have a stress fracture just not in the location we thought.
- After Thanking God and holding back tears once more, because it wasn't a more serious situation. My mind whirled over how my active boy is going to make it through another round in a cast. (The last time he was in the cast, I felt like I was restraining a baby bear from his mother).
- So, life moves on and we are into day one of the new cast. Sam (my son) has already tried to pry the cast off with his play saw, hammer, and pure, super-human toddler strength. Who knew a two year old could be so strong? I am just wondering if the cast or Sam will win.
- To say the least, my sleep has been mimial because of concern and pure emotional exhaustion. I am sooo grateful I now know what the "limp" is. I feel as though I should be feeling renewed, but it seems like the emotional toll is slamming down on me. I am ready to burst into tears and when I go to blink, one of my eyes keeps sticking together. Weird I know! Explain that one!
Any who - why am I sitting here typing when I should be in bed at quarter to one in the morning? Well, it was the season finally of LOST! Who can resist the urge to watch when I am in dire need to leave my reality if only for two hours!
_ So what did you think!!!??? I know, it always takes me a day to digest all the info! Although the last episode answered many of this season's questions, boy it threw out some doozies, didn't it?! I want to know the writers and learn from them how they come up with such fantastic "copy". If LOST was a product to be bought I would be hooked to buy all the time!!
-Talking about marketing...What do you think about my new site Mom Marketeers? Is it easy to understand/follow? Do you have any questions? Any feed back would be fantastic and super appreciated!
-NEW INFO...(with more to be written soon...) My interview with Nicole MacKenzie is up!! Go listen to the recording! Nicole MacKenzie .- I think Nicole is the bomb! Her info. is soo great; she is so genuine and is full of great suggestions, insight. Nicole follows a refresing life philosophy. She make her theories so easy to understand and I am so excited to start implementing them. Actually right after the call with her I started with the little we discussed and I must admit... My kids and I have been so much happier (meaning content) and we have found greater peace in our home. Especially right now, that is a huge feat!
- Go right now to my Mom Has Fun site to find out for yourself! I'd love to hear what you think and get feedback on questions you have and how Kids' Keys To Success can improve our interviews!
-Check out Nicole's course yourself! Hear testimonials and learn more info. on her site. You will be so excited to learn more because how simple she makes it! I know you will love it!
More to come.... take care and to all those moms out there...get some sleep! ;-)
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
What Is "Kids' Keys To Success"?
As I sit here thinking about how to explain why Kids' Keys To Success exists, I am overwhelmed with thoughts and emotions relating to my love for my children. For years I have researched, questioned, asked, and have tortured myself because I dodn't know the "best" things to do for my kids and often feel like a failure. I have even questioned why my God blessed me with my beautiful children when I don't know what I am doing. Pretty desperate, right!
Have you ever felt this way? I am sure there are moms and dads out there who have never felt this desperation but probably, some do and can relate to where I am coming from. My husband reminds me too...like him, there are even those, who have never identified those feelings as fear of failing but do want to offer their kids all that is possible. So, I made this site for all of us...
Anyway you see it, Kids' Keys To Success is a place for all of us to come together, share those thoughts and evolve our uncertainties into inspiration, empowerment, and action. This site will evolve because of all the viewers' participation. Kids' Keys won't go anywhere without you.
I am depending on you to help me not only become a better parent but a better person. My hypothesis is... if I find this happening to me, the same will happen for you.
My plan is to conduct interviews with renowned authors, share literature and products related to offering insight into parenting and thoughts about what is "best" for our kids. I began this blog to help me find the answers I need to successfully parent my kids. I know my answers might not be yours, visa-versa, but that too will assist in my struggles. I figure even if I learn what I don't think are the answers for me, I will be minimizing the huge playing field of "parenting experts" and tips.
So, how 'bout it? Help me and I'll do my best to help you. I encourage all comments excluding harassment, belittling, and degradation. I am offering this site in good will...allowing only those comments in good faith.
If you are looking to promote your own product related to parenting and kids' well being, I am all for it. However, advertising or promoting products without permission from Kids Keys To Success will cause immediate termination from the blog. Direct any questions to admin@kidskeystosuccess.com.
Now that I have those pieces explained, please blog away... share your concerns, offer tips that work for you, and share with us the stories that make life worth living.
Upcoming Event:
Next up....Meglena Antonova. One of Meglena's goals is to share tips with parents to create more green conscious kids. I don't know about you but since the kids are our future we better be teaching them what's needed to ensure a future! Meglena discusses how our green decisions affect our child's thoughts for their future. More info. will be shared soon!
Please let me know what your hot topics are!!!! Blog Away!
With Sincere Appreciation for Reading...
Jen Edwards
Kids Keys' To Success
Have you ever felt this way? I am sure there are moms and dads out there who have never felt this desperation but probably, some do and can relate to where I am coming from. My husband reminds me too...like him, there are even those, who have never identified those feelings as fear of failing but do want to offer their kids all that is possible. So, I made this site for all of us...
Anyway you see it, Kids' Keys To Success is a place for all of us to come together, share those thoughts and evolve our uncertainties into inspiration, empowerment, and action. This site will evolve because of all the viewers' participation. Kids' Keys won't go anywhere without you.
I am depending on you to help me not only become a better parent but a better person. My hypothesis is... if I find this happening to me, the same will happen for you.
My plan is to conduct interviews with renowned authors, share literature and products related to offering insight into parenting and thoughts about what is "best" for our kids. I began this blog to help me find the answers I need to successfully parent my kids. I know my answers might not be yours, visa-versa, but that too will assist in my struggles. I figure even if I learn what I don't think are the answers for me, I will be minimizing the huge playing field of "parenting experts" and tips.
So, how 'bout it? Help me and I'll do my best to help you. I encourage all comments excluding harassment, belittling, and degradation. I am offering this site in good will...allowing only those comments in good faith.
If you are looking to promote your own product related to parenting and kids' well being, I am all for it. However, advertising or promoting products without permission from Kids Keys To Success will cause immediate termination from the blog. Direct any questions to admin@kidskeystosuccess.com.
Now that I have those pieces explained, please blog away... share your concerns, offer tips that work for you, and share with us the stories that make life worth living.
Upcoming Event:
Next up....Meglena Antonova. One of Meglena's goals is to share tips with parents to create more green conscious kids. I don't know about you but since the kids are our future we better be teaching them what's needed to ensure a future! Meglena discusses how our green decisions affect our child's thoughts for their future. More info. will be shared soon! Please let me know what your hot topics are!!!! Blog Away!
With Sincere Appreciation for Reading...
Jen Edwards
Kids Keys' To Success
Marine Life Is A Key To Kids' Success
Recently we took a trip to Marine Land...Everybody Loves Marine Land! Well, everyone maybe, but me!
I LOVE the animals, but crowds, pushiness, rude behavior, and crankie hubby/kids I can do without!
I should have seen the writing on the wall. 11pm Friday evening hubby looked up what we needed to get back across the border from Canada into the US... two forms of picture ID and birth certificate. 
Up to our safe we went and no birth certificate for me!! I thought I remember my mom bringing mine to me a while back and reminding me with a stern, pointed finger, "Put it In a SAFE spot!"
A safe spot would mean our safe, right? Along with the kids, Jeff's and all important paperwork...wills, power of attorney, living wills, Jeff's Army discharge papers, letters of accomodation, diplomas, morage (I'd rather do without), vehicle titles, etc... But no birth certificate for me!!
So a flurry went on to find it...every box was riffled through and every cubbie reorganized...nothing.
3am I call it a night and resign ot tell my children the trip to the dolphins and whales is put on hold...sigh... I hate to break promises!
Morning...the dreaded confession..Emmy's response..."Momy, can't Daddy take us? We can have a special "Daddy Day" (once a month my husband takes Em on a date)...and in the same breath..."Sam can stay home with you!"
"Brilliant idea Em. Let's talk with Daddy." Before I did I had a light bulb moment (very rare when it comes to sleep deprivation) "Call my mom, maybe she knows what I did with it."
Mom/Nana To The Rescue! It was in her safety box!
Long story short...
What I Learned:
1. Flush all memories having to do with resposibilities down the toilet during the period of Sam's Infancy. (too tired and overwhelmed!);
2. Try to be prepared before promising a trip; and
3. If you are planning to go to an amusment park in the summer, go on a week day and bring at least 2 changes of clothes for the kids. (due to the high heat, I encouraged lots of water/juice consumption...the normal diaper change should have increased in ratio!)
What I Hope My Kids Learned:
1. Be patient; wait your turn;
2. Even when we are grumpy, we are a family and we support one another; and
3. Water mammals are amazing!
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